My Parents are The BEST!

 Like many people, I believe my parents are the best! They are the gold standard of what a parent should be! The absolute best, most infuriating, frustrating, stubborn, bullheaded, and yes, BEST Parents Ever! 

In December of 2022, my sisters and I became aware that these two amazing individuals were struggling beyond their own capabilities to handle. Since then, my sisters and I have taken over managing their lives. 

We have taken over all banking, resolved their debt, cleaned up their credit, completed some much needed home improvements, created schedules for their Doctors Appointments and managed all their prescriptions. 

This couple who never gave themselves credit for how smart they actually were, have always been intimidated by technology. When we started taking over their "affairs", we found that they had minimal, in many cases no online access to their accounts. It took months just to get access and create the required IDs & Passwords to manage it all. 

The good news is that within a year we were able to get so much done for them! To accomplish all that we did required a tremendous amount of work and whole lot of new learning. 

The intention of this blog is to share our experiences and learnings. 

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